Like most people, I was deeply disturbed and saddened by the story of Megan Meier, a Missouri teen who killed herself after the mother of a former friend used MySpace to perpetrate a cruel hoax.
The woman — 48 year-old Lori Drew — posed as a fictitious 16 year-old boy named Josh Evans on MySpace to gain Megan’s confidence. After six weeks of being the perfect e-boyfriend, “Josh” turned cruel. “His” last message to Megan:
Everybody in O’Fallon knows how you are. You are a bad person and everybody hates you. Have a shitty rest of your life. The world would be a better place without you.
Megan promptly ran upstairs to her room and hung herself with a belt. She died the next day.
As with other forms of adolescent cruelty, most people get over the effects of cyberbullying as they grow up. When I was in 7th grade, some girls in my class made a website all about how ugly I was. The worst part was that the parents of the girls in question did nothing to punish their daughters when my mother brought the website to their attention.
I was utterly humiliated, but I somehow managed to survive the experience, just as I survived the cruel notes in my yearbook and the attempts to flush my belongings down the toilet. I grew up and (mostly) moved on.
But this was before online social networks were a glimmer in anyone’s eye. I can only imagine how horrible it would have been if those same cruel girls and their idiot parents had been able to use MySpace for their ends. Social context accelerates everything: application and group adoption, the spread of news, and cyberbullies’ cruelty. It’s like pouring gasoline on a fire.
That said, I hope that people won’t rush to condemn MySpace for Megan’s tragic death.
Welcome to our community! If you like what you see, you may want to subscribe to our RSS feed!



Facebook just dropped some news onto their
The slightly over the hill online social networking behemoth MySpace has
Also in that article I 



